Searching for a new job without being discovered.Finding a New Position Without Letting on You Are Looking

You've tried everything to advance in your current position, but the cards are stacked against you. It's time to find a new job. First, map out a strategy for your move. Whether it's an interim position to get you out of a bad situation or a step up the corporate ladder, your most important tactic in job hunting is "discretion at all times." Stress confidentiality if you tell anyone, especially friends at your current place of employment, that you're searching for a new job. Mum's the word.

Next, always request that your job application be handled confidentially, especially if you're applying to a company that does business with your current employer. Ask for the right to reply to any statements given to your potential employer by your current company. Give your reasons for wanting to work at the new company in positive terms. Be sure they know that you chose them because you admire their products/service/work ethic/corporate culture - whatever characteristic stands out to you. Make it clear that you're looking to be challenged and to work hard for the company's interests in hopes that you can move up as opportunities allow. Companies don't hire you for your benefit; they hire you for their interests, so be sure to tell them how much you can bring to the table.

When prospective employers ask when you'll be available, tell them you can start work two weeks after the hiring decision is made. This response gives you two advantages:

  1. You signal to your prospective employer that you're a responsible employee by not walking out on your current job. This tells them that you're not likely to walk out on them, either.

  2. You give yourself time to work out whatever exit process is required by your current employer, including leaving with any accrued benefits.

Finally, observe this simple rule: Don't quit working where you are until you have someplace to go. This doesn't only mean "don't hand in your resignation until you're hired elsewhere." It means to keep doing your current job well; don't slack off because you're dissatisfied and looking. In particular, watch your attitude. Continue to be a cheerful team player, or your managers are going to suspect you're on the lookout for a new position.

As much as you may dislike your current job, don't overlook the fact that you might need something from that company or your co-workers down the road. Unless your position is absolutely untenable, such as getting away from a hazardous or illegal situation, don't burn any bridges when you move on. Life and work are a series of peaks and valleys, and sometimes you have to circle back to get ahead. So don't cut yourself off.